Break into any CliqueChris desperately wanted people to like him.Whenever he interacted with people, a little voice in his head would say “I hope they like me.”

Can you relate?

Most people naturally want others to like them. It can have a positive effect on us. This desire can help prevent us from doing stupid things to others.

Problem is that if you are desperate for people to like you…you can come across as desperate. 

A puppy desperate for others to like them.

A better way is to:

1. Learn to like yourself or be comfortable with who you are.
2. Put on behaviors and attitudes that you and others like.  

You need to like yourself.

Usually, people have two main areas they don’t like about themselves.

First, their looks. 

Second, their behaviors.

About everyone wishes they could change a few things about their body.

You can’t do much, but you can dress up your body and change your perception of yourself. Stop complaining to others about the things you don’t like about yourself.

Dress nice, use good hygiene, and walk with confidence. (Conversation Success System shows you how)

A clean 1999 Buick will look better than a 2014, dirty Cadillac. Same with yourself. 

Many people don’t like themselves because of their behaviors. Maybe it’s rudeness, awkwardness, shyness, etc.

Change your attitudes and behaviors and you’ll like yourself better and others will like you too.

More tomorrow on this subject.

 

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