Break into any CliqueA reader asked me:

I feel shy around people and want to improve my people skills?

Great question. (Feel free to email me questions and I’ll answer them as time permits)

Having struggled with shyness, I feel your pain. It’s like a ball and chain holding us back from people.

Here is a good way to improve your conversation skills.

Pick one technique/idea and focus on applying it for three days. Then add another technique for another three days.

To many people get overwhelmed and try to apply twenty conversation tips at one time. It’s like trying to carry 20 cups of water at a time. 

Start slow and soon your subconscious will take over and you will naturally be great at conversation.

You’ll start to see results today. Gigantic results within a couple weeks. Your coworkers, family will be amazed by the transformation.

Just using Key #1 from the Conversation Success System will transform your skills immediately.

After a couple days, apply key #2.

The beauty of this is that you will automatically start to apply some of the other keys as you are focused on one technique.

You could use some sticky notes to remind you to keep applying  certain techniques.

It’s all about progress, not perfection

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